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Lydia Spencer-Elliott

Lydia Spencer-Elliott has been a culture and lifestyle reporter at The Independent since 2024, specialising in features about film, TV, photography, dance, lifestyle trends and dating.

<p>The White Lotus</p>

24 hours with the real-life manager of The White Lotus hotel

The new series of the hit HBO show is set in the Four Seasons resort in Koh Samui, Thailand. Lydia Spencer-Elliott speaks to the general manager about outrageous guest demands and how he stays sane

<p>Smashy smashy: Lydia Spencer-Elliott in her rage room with a friend</p>

I was sick of talking about my problems – so I smashed up a rage room

Today’s young women are unleashing their anger not in group chats or over coffee with friends, but in windowless rooms filled with crockery and dinnerware, which can be shattered to smithereens – for a price. Lydia Spencer-Elliott went to one to see what all the fuss was about – and came back a changed person

I was sick of talking about my problems – so I smashed up a rage room

Today’s young women are unleashing their anger not in group chats or over coffee with friends, but in windowless rooms filled with crockery and dinnerware, which can be shattered to smithereens – for a price. Lydia Spencer-Elliott went to one to see what all the fuss was about – and came back a changed person

<p>Smashy smashy: Lydia Spencer-Elliott in her rage room with a friend</p>

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